Dang I need a spell checker.
I don't really spend a lot of time talking about my love life among strangers, and I sure don't kiss and tell, and I'm caught a little off guard when others do. Guess Mom and Grandmother raised me differently. Am I still "openly" hetero? If anything I'm "openly" purple. I'm sure I've bored a number of people to death letting them know that the Frogs won the Rose Bowl and won 3 games in Omaha.
Not too many in my circle of friends are bored enough to care what someone else does behind a closed door, but it needs to stay there. Some of the biggest proponents of their "right to privacy" (still can't find it in the Constitution, must be hidden under one of those penumbras, but I digress), are the main ones that need to utilize it, instead of trying to force acceptance of something I disagree with. Show me that your good at your job and can help me succeed because of it, or that you like baseball, or know the best place to get a hamburger in the area, some kind of common ground, not what kind of perverted stuff you do in your bedroom.